Written with my husband's permission. On my blog, I receive a lot of comments and praise from my readers for bringing exciting, interesting and informative reads. What a lot of people don't know though, is that like a lot of people, there are several sides to me. There is the playful me, the helpful me, … Continue reading Sexual Assault & My Family: Why No, It Wasn’t Just A Harmless Slap
BDSM -It's not necessary, but it's fun.
Good evening lovelies, For today's post, Penny and I will be delving in and taking a look at some of the words and expressions used in our dynamics. It is important to understand that dynamics vary greatly, and not everyone chooses to use the same words. For Wolfie and I, we don't generally say or … Continue reading Married To Master: A Look At Language
The purpose of a ritual is to allow us to take ourselves from the present moment and into the mindset for play. Whether it's a simple movement or an elaborate performance, the ritual allows you bring your focus onto your BDSM dynamic.
Rules make me feel safe, they make me feel cared for and protected. They also tell me how I can please, as a submissive.
Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not? Is spanking or corporal punishment part of my submission? Absolutely. Would we regard it as punishment? Absolutely not. I mentioned in my previous 30 Days Of Submission post that Mr Wolfie and I are flatly against punishment. For us, our dynamic … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission – Corporal Punishment
"Votes are here, love" I said, handing Wolfie his postal vote. We vote by post for convenience reasons. Him because he typically uses public transport to get to and from work which takes up more of that polling booth opening time, and me because those dreaded places seriously exacerbate my lifelong Generalized Anxiety Disorder. At … Continue reading Married To Master: Chapter 5- Submission & Feminism
Do you accept and/or expect discipline or punishments as a part of your submission? How do you feel about it? Damn this question, because you know, honestly it was something I wanted to talk about next week in a slightly different way. Alas, here I am. If you want the short version, then no, I … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 7 – Accepting Punishments
Created with Crello for bigboldandbright.com, Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you? … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 4 – The Itch To Switch
Good morning lovelies, Today Penny and I will delve into perhaps the area that most people are familiar with within BDSM, the most popular part apart from the tying up part - the punishments! Once again, I need to reiterate that for Wolfie and I, fun is at the forefront of all that we do. … Continue reading Married To Master: Chapter 4- Punishments & Behaviour Modification